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The Dating Advisor, Issue #14 -- The Language and Meaning of Flowers
May 19, 2005
Helping you to enjoy Online Dating.

Welcome to all!

Have you planted a flower garden yet?

Brighten the planet and brighten someone's life with flowers. Flowers have power to lift a person's spirits. But you know that. Just do it

Make use of one of our flowers partners and brighten someone's day!

In this issue you'll find the article, "The Language and Meaning of Flowers," which gives a great background about what certain flowers can mean when presented to someone. There's a section in the article devoted just to Roses, which is the main flower that most of us know. Well, now you can know a whole lot more.

Speaking of Rose, this issue has a review of the movie, "Titanic," whose main female character is Rose. And the lyrics to the movie's love theme is also included in this issue.

Enjoy the following features of The Dating Advisor and keep your spirits high!

In This Issue

1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews
2) Romantic Movie--Titanic
3) Find a Unique Gift at 1-800-Floral
4) Article--The Language and Meaning of Flowers
5) Love Poem--How Do I Love Thee by Elzabeth Barrett Browning
6) Love Song--My Heart Will Go On by Celine Dion


1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews

Black Singles Connection
The BlackSinglesConnection theme is, "We bring black singles together." They have created a highly rated and very comfortable online dating service for the community of African Americans and blacks worldwide. All of the best dating features can be found here and the pricing is very reasonable. Especially, check out their limited time special, one of the best deals seen anywhere on web dating sites. You’ll agree that BlackSinglesConnection is a wonderful discovery and you may well meet your match.

A free guest membership will allow you to do many things. You can post a great profile about yourself, using a sample profile as your guide. You can then browse through the profiles and photos of other members and see how many members offer what you are looking for. Your guest membership will also allow you to send and receive Smiles, a way of flirting, and to send and receive e-cards. You may also read the message boards to see what interesting topics the members are discussing. After one or more members have caught your attention and you have caught theirs it will be time to upgrade to the premium membership.
Review continues Click Here.

Yahoo! Personals
The Yahoo! website is one of the most frequently used websites on the entire internet, so not surprisingly, the Yahoo Personals dating service is one of the most frequently used dating sites. The membership is huge! You’ll notice that when you do a search for profiles of eligible singles in your immediate geographical area that you will receive more results than with any other dating service. No wonder their website title is, "Discover great singles near you." And if you don’t live in the U.S., don’t worry. Yahoo! has their site interfaced for about 9 different countries and 6 different languages. Take a free Tour of their site, a wonderful flash presentation, and then start searching for a friend, a date, a relationship, and more.

One of the key features that makes Yahoo Personals so successful is the personal profile which you can create for free. It will take you a little more time to create than most because it encompasses about 5 pages and over 60 important areas.
Review continues Click Here.

2) Titanic Movie Review

I remember being stunned when I first saw "Titanic" because I was expecting a disaster film about a sinking ship.

What moved me the greatest was the grand love story that is central to the movie's events. Since the love story is told by the ederly Rose, it is clearly a love story to transcend the generations.

Add to that rich sets and costumes and that picture of Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio at the bow of the ship, and it's no wonder that the movie won 11 Academy Awards.

Rent it and watch it again with someone special.

Here's a review by Amazon.com editor, Jeff Shannon.

"When the theatrical release of James Cameron's Titanic was delayed from July to December of 1997, media pundits speculated that Cameron's $200 million disaster epic would cause the director's downfall, signal the end of the blockbuster era, and sink Paramount Studios as quickly as the ill-fated luxury liner had sunk on that fateful night of April 14, 1912. Some studio executives were confident, others horrified, but the clarity of hindsight turned Cameron into an Oscar-winning genius, a shrewd businessman, and one of the most successful directors in the history of motion pictures. Titanic would surpass the $1 billion mark in global box-office receipts (largely due to multiple viewings, the majority by teenage girls), win 11 Academy Awards including best picture and director, produce the best-selling movie soundtrack of all time, and make a global superstar of Leonardo DiCaprio. A bona fide pop-cultural phenomenon, the film has all the ingredients of a blockbuster (romance, passion, luxury, grand scale, a snidely villain, and an epic, life-threatening crisis), but Cameron's alchemy of these ingredients proved more popular than anyone could have predicted. His stroke of genius was to combine absolute authenticity with a pair of fictional lovers whose tragic fate would draw viewers into the heart-wrenching reality of the Titanic disaster. As starving artist Jack Dawson and soon-to-be-married socialite Rose DeWitt Bukater, DiCaprio and Kate Winslet won the hearts of viewers around the world, and their brief but never-forgotten love affair provides the humanity that Cameron needed to turn Titanic into an emotional experience. Present-day framing scenes (featuring Gloria Stuart as the 101-year-old Rose) add additional resonance to the story, and although some viewers proved vehemently immune to Cameron's manipulations, few can deny the production's impressive achievements. Although some of the computer-generated visual effects look artificial, others--such as the sunset silhouette of Titanic during its first evening at sea, or the climactic splitting of the ship's sinking hull--are state-of-the-art marvels. In terms of sets and costumes alone, the film is never less than astounding. More than anything else, however, the film's overwhelming popularity speaks for itself. Titanic is an event film and a monument to Cameron's risk-taking audacity, blending the tragic irony of the Titanic disaster with just enough narrative invention to give the historical event its fullest and most timeless dramatic impact. Titanic is an epic love story on par with Gone with the Wind, and like that earlier box-office phenomenon, it's a film for the ages."

3) Find a unique, fun gift at 1-800-Florals.com

The site makes it easy to select a great bouquet of flowers for the right occasion. The bouquets are gorgeous and they offer same-day delivery throughout the U.S. and Canada. Want to know more about flowers? There are numerous great articles that will make you an expert and help you decide.
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4) The Language and Meaning of Flowers by Garry Gamber

"Flowers and bouquets of flowers have a meaning of their own. Most of us know that a dozen red roses means, “Be mine.” But did you know, for example, that a primrose means, “I can’t live without you,” or that a purple hyacinth means, “Please forgive me,” or that a pink carnation means, “I’ll never forget you,” or that a gladiolus means, “Give me a break?”

Flower meanings have been used to convey ideas, feelings and messages for centuries. The word, floriography, has been coined for the assignment of meaning to flowers. There is a meaning to colors of flowers, to numbers of flowers, and to groups of flowers. It is a silent language that has been largely lost to us through lack of use.

In addition to the obvious choices of color and variety, the language of flowers also includes the way flowers are worn or presented. Presenting flowers upright conveys a positive meaning, but if they are presented upside down the meaning is the opposite. If a ribbon is included with the flowers and is tied to the left then the meaning of the flowers refers to the giver, but if the ribbon is tied to the right then the meaning refers to the recipient. Also, flowers can be used to answer questions. When they are presented with the right hand the answer is "yes," but when presented with the left hand the answer is "no."


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5) How Do I Love Thee by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Love poems have the power to inspire us and to warm our hearts. We should take a few minutes each day to recall an inspirational line or stanza.


How Do I Love Thee

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.

I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.

I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,--I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!--and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.


This is the favorite love poem of many people. It is clear and concise and has a memorable opening line. And a powerful second line, "I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach."

Wow!

Read interesting notes about the backstory of How Do I Love Thee.

6) Love Song: My Heart Will Go On
by Celine Dion

This love theme and the entire score to "Titanic" won Academy Awards in 1998. At the Academy Awards presentations Celine sang this song to a huge ovation.

I like to read the lyrics quietly to myself as opposed to belting them out the way Celine does. The lyrics really are excellent.


My Heart Will Go On

Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you,
That is how I know you go on

Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you’re here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go till we’re gone

Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life we’ll always go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you’re here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

You’re here, there’s nothing I fear,
And I know that my heart will go on
We’ll stay forever this way
You are safe in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

That's all for now.

Make it a great week.

Mark

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