Back to Back Issues Page
The Dating Advisor, Issue #9 -- Do You Need a Date Doctor?
March 09, 2005
Helping you to enjoy Online Dating.

Welcome to all!

The movie, Hitch, has recently been released to the movie theaters. Have you seen it yet?

Will Smith, one of my favorite comic actors, is the well-meaning Date Doctor who is able to give great adice to others but who really needs someone else to give him some much needed advice. Everyone needs a dating advisor it seems!

Smith is hilarious as are the situations in the movie. If you haven't seen it yet make it a date movie with someone interesting.

The movie makes some excellent points about attraction. There's a scene where Will Smith approaches the character, Sara, who has just shown remarkably strong resistance to interacting with a good-looking guy. Smith successfully chases away the other guy and uniquely starts a verbal sparring match with Sara.

Sara admits that she is not interested in the ways that guys approach her because they all do it "just ike every other guy." She appears to be attacted to Smith because his approach is not "just like every other guy."

Great point. Women (and men as well) are attracted to a good tease, especially one that is funny and provocative.

Then Smith executes the advanced move, after creating attraction, of leaving Sara abruptly. Just walking away. Wow. He leaves her with plenty to think about.

Speaking of movies, I've included a romantic song, "Cruisin," from the underrated movie, Duets. The song is haunting and cool, and I'll bet you've wondered what the lyrics were exactly. Here they are.

Enjoy the following features of The Dating Advisor and keep your spirits high!

In This Issue

1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews
2) Romantic Movie--Groundhog Day
3) Find a Unique Gift at Timeless Message
4) Article--Ways To Say I Love You In Another Language
5) Love Poem--Beautiful Dreamer by Stephen Foster
6) Love Song--Cruisin' by Huey Lewis and Gwyneth Paltrow


1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews

Yahoo Personals.com
The Yahoo! website is one of the most frequently used websites on the entire internet, so not surprisingly, the Yahoo Personals dating service is one of the most frequently used dating sites. The membership is huge! You’ll notice that when you do a search for profiles of eligible singles in your immediate geographical area that you will receive more results than with any other dating service. No wonder their website title is, "Discover great singles near you." And if you don’t live in the U.S., don’t worry. Yahoo! has their site interfaced for about 9 different countries and 6 different languages. Take a free Tour of their site, a wonderful flash presentation, and then start searching for a friend, a date, a relationship, and more.
Review continues Click Here.

BlackSinglesConnection.com
The BlackSinglesConnection theme is, "We bring black singles together." They have created a highly rated and very comfortable online dating service for the community of African Americans and blacks worldwide. All of the best dating features can be found here and the pricing is very reasonable. Especially, check out their limited time special, one of the best deals seen anywhere on web dating sites. You’ll agree that BlackSinglesConnection is a wonderful discovery and you may well meet your match.
Review continues Click Here.

2) Groundhog Day Movie Review

Since we recently observed Groundhog Day and Puxatawny Phil saw his shadow, presaging six more weeks of winter, I thought that this romantic fantasy classic would be an appropriate recommendation.

Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell could not be more charming or more interesting in this clever story. See it again because I'll bet you've forgotten how funny it is. Enjoy!

Here's a review by Amazon.com editor, David Chute.

"Bill Murray does warmth in his most consistently effective post-Stripes comedy, a romantic fantasy about a wacky weatherman forced to relive one strange day over and over again, until he gets it right. Snowed in during a road-trip expedition to watch the famous groundhog encounter his shadow, Murray falls into a time warp that is never explained but pays off so richly that it doesn't need to be. The elaborate loop-the-loop plot structure cooked up by screenwriter Danny Rubin is crystal-clear every step of the way, but it's Murray's world-class reactive timing that makes the jokes explode, and we end up looking forward to each new variation. He squeezes all the available juice out of every scene. Without forcing the issue, he makes us understand why this fly-away personality responds so intensely to the radiant sanity of the TV producer played by Andie MacDowell. The blissfully clueless Chris Elliott (Cabin Boy) is Murray's nudnik cameraman."

3) Find a unique, fun gift at >Timeless Message

Timeless Message is an elegant Message-in-a-Bottle. This gift is a very personal and emotional gift full of mystery and intrigue. Perfect for birthdays, anniversaries any special occasions or just to say "I love you." Makes a unique marriage proposal or great surprise gift that will make a lasting keepsake for any occasion. "When cards and Flowers are not enough" send a Timeless Message. Click here.

4) 10 Ways To Say I Love You In Another Language by Garry Gamber

Have you been looking for romantic and provocative ways to say “I Love You” to your special partner? There are numerous different and creative ways to say “I Love You,” but have you ever thought about memorizing “I Love You” in as many foreign languages as possible?

Imagine someone whispering to you “Je t’aime” or “Te amo” or “Aloha wau ia ‘oe.” You’d be intrigued, interested, and pleased, wouldn’t you? Well, try several foreign language translations of “I Love You” with a special person in your life and see what happens.

Afrikaans – Ek is lief vir jou

American – Have a beer

Australian – ‘ave another

Arabic – Ana Ahebak / Ana Bahibak

Cantonese – Ngo Oi Nei

Chinese – Gnoy oy na

Danish – Jeg eisker dig

Article continues Click Here.

5) Beautiful Dreamer by Stephen Foster

Love poems have the power to inspire us and to warm our hearts. We should take a few minutes each day to recall an inspirational line or stanza.


Beautiful dreamer, wake unto me,
Starlight and dewdrops are waiting for thee;
Sounds of the rude world heard in the day,
Lull'd by the moonlight have all pass'd away!

Beautiful dreamer, queen of my song,
List while I woo thee with soft melody;
Gone are the cares of life's busy throng, --
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me!

Beautiful dreamer, out on the sea
Mermaids are chaunting the wild lorelie;
Over the streamlet vapors are borne,
Waiting to fade at the bright coming morn.

Beautiful dreamer, beam on my heart,
E'en as the morn on the streamlet and sea;
Then will all clouds of sorrow depart, --
Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me!

Read interesting notes about the backstory of Beautiful Dreamer.

6) Love Song Cruisin'
by Huey Lewis and Gwyneth Paltrow

Gwyneth Paltrow has an excellent singing voice, though she rarely is given a chance to showcase it. Her mother, Blythe Danner, also has an excellent voice, though she seldom shows it off either.

"Cruisin" was originally written by Smokey Robinson.


[Huey Lewis](Gwnyneth Paltrow)

[Baby let's cruise]
(Away from here)
[Don't be confused]
(The way is clear)
And if you want it, you got it forever
This is not a one night stand, baby
(Yeah)
So, let the music take your mind
Just release and you will find

You're gonna fly away
Glad you're goin' my way
I love it when we're cruisin' together
Music is played for love
Cruisin' is made for love
I love it when we're cruisin' together

[Baby tonight]
(Belongs to us)
[Everything right]
(Do what you must)
And inch by inch we grow closer and closer
To every li'l part of each other
(Oooh baby yeah)
[Sooo]
Let the music take your mind
Just release and you will find

You're gonna fly away
Glad you're goin' my way
I love it when we're cruisin' together
Music is played for love
Cruisin' is made for love
I love it when we're cruisin' together

Cruise with me baby
Ooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhh
[Yeah,]
(Oooooooooooooooohhhhhhhh)

Oooohhh baby let's cruise
(Let's float, let's glide)
Oooohh
Let's open up (and go inside)

And if you want it, you got it forever
I could just stay here beside you and love you baby
Let the music (take your mind)
Just release and [you will find]

You're gonna fly away
Glad you're goin’ my way
I love it when we're cruisin' together
Music is played for love
Cruisin' is made for love
I love it when we're cruisin' together

You're gonna fly away
Glad you're goin’ my way
I love it when we're cruisin' together
Music is played for love
Cruisin' is made for love
I love it when...I love it, I love it, I love it
(Oohh)
[Cruise with me baby]
(I love it when we're cruisin’ together)

Read some interesting notes about Cruisin.

That's all for now.

Make it a great week.

Mark

Back to Back Issues Page