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The Dating Advisor, Issue #12 -- Sping Flowers
April 21, 2005
Helping you to enjoy Online Dating.

Welcome to all!

"April showers bring May flowers," so they say. It's time to be planting now so that you can reap the rewards later on.

The same is true with dating. Make sure you are planting some seeds now online so that a special romance can grow and flourish.

Be sure to check out the reviews below of a couple of the best dating services on the internet, Lavalife.com and SeniorFriendFinder. Internet dating is one of the best ways for busy singles to safely meet and to get to know each other.

Enjoy the following features of The Dating Advisor and keep your spirits high!

In This Issue

1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews
2) Romantic Movie--Moonstruck
3) Find a Unique Gift at Just Flowers
4) Article--20 Tips To Keep Love Alive
5) Love Poem--To A Stranger by Walt Whitman
6) Love Song--That's Amore by Dean Martin


1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews

Lavalife.com
Lavalife is "where singles click." When you click on lavalife you’ll find 10,000 or more singles on the site almost any time of the day. Lavalife currently has over 8 million online members. Lavalife is a supersized dating service with a great looking website and an outstanding assortment of features. It is quick and easy to get started with lavalife, and in no time you will be searching among their enormous membership for that special someone who really catches your attention. There are many success stories here and you just may be their next one.

At lavalife you can create three different profiles because they offer three distinct communities of members. There is a Dating category for friendship and fun encounters, a Relationship category for finding someone who is open for serious possibilities, and there is an Intimate Encounters category where you might be able to start something wild.

Review continues Click Here.

Senior Friend Finder
The motto for SeniorFriendFinder is, "Dating for people with experience," and experience is something that the FriendFinder network has in enormous amounts. They know how to bring people together and they know how to create a website that supports the dating service better than anyone. The entire FriendFinder network of members is about 20 million strong, and the SeniorFriendFinder segment boasts about a quarter million members. There are generally a couple thousand members online at any given time, so you can feel confident that you will meet some wonderful, experienced adults who are looking for someone just like you for dating or correspondence.

A wonderful feature of SeniorFriendFinder is that the free membership allows you to do many of the things that you must pay for on most dating sites. There are two sections to the site, the Friend Network and the Dating and Romance section. Your profile in the Dating section will be more extensive than your profile in the Friend section and you are welcome to use both sections freely. You’ll be able to search among members for those that interest you most. You won’t be able to initiate contact with others using the standard membership, but those who are interested in you can contact you. That’s a great feature and may allow you to have numerous contacts and dates without ever leaving the standard membership area.

Review continues Click Here.

2) Moonstruck Movie Review

"Moonstruck" won an Academy Award for Cher in 1987. Olympia Dukakis also won an Oscar for her role, and the scrptwriter, John Shanley, also won an Oscar. A young Nicolas Cage was also brilliant in the movie.

The characters of Cage and Cher show how funny and outrageous characters can create an irresistable attraction for each other. Shanley's New York characters are certainly memorable.

Watch the movie again and share it with someone special.

Here's a review by Amazon.com editor, Tom Keogh.

"Remember the outfit Cher wore to the Oscars when she won an Academy Award for her performance in this 1987 film? Ay-yi-yi. The actress' more retiring character in this infectious comedy leaps several psychological hurdles just giving her hair a permanent. But then the original screenplay by John Patrick Shanley (Joe Versus the Volcano) is a wonderful, gently satirical tale of an Italian-American family dealing with repression and dissatisfaction against a backdrop of cultural expectations. Cher is focused and funny as a widow who feels she should marry an older fellow (Danny Aiello), but then falls for his black-sheep brother (Nicolas Cage). Olympia Dukakis and Vincent Gardenia are perfect as her parents, and John Mahoney (of TV's Frasier) has a memorable, small role as a middle-aged man on the make who gets a lecture from Dukakis's character. Shanley's dialogue is comically stylized in a way that makes one appreciate how much words can inform an actor's performance. Taking its cues from him and director Norman Jewison (And Justice for All), the cast immerse themselves in a pool of hilariously operatic emotion. The special-edition DVD release has a full-screen presentation, Dolby sound, commentary by Cher, Jewison, and Shanley, theatrical trailer, closed captioning, booklet, optional French soundtrack, and optional subtitles in English, French, or Spanish."

3) Find a unique, fun gift at Just Flowers

Excellent menu to help you find the perfect floral gift for your loved one. Also choose from a selection of chocolates, cookies, wine, fruit, balloons, gift baskets, and even teddy bears. Same day floral delivery available.
Click here.

4) 20 Tips To Keep Love Alive by Garry Gamber

"Have you ever been at a loss to think of something special that you can do for that special someone in your life? Maybe you want to do a little extra for an important event, like his or her birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas, or anniversary.

Here are some excellent tips and ideas of some special actions that you can take to help keep love alive in your life.

1. Give your loved one a top ten list: Top Ten Reasons Why I Love You. (It’s okay to include bonus reasons.)

2. Change the screen saver on the computer to something like “You Are the Light of My Life” in fancy or bold letters.

3. Stick an “I Love You” note on his or her steering wheel while they are at work.

4. Give her the top half of a pair of your pajamas on a cold night.

5. Write a poem for her, even if it is short, and even if you can’t write poems."
Article continues Click Here.

5) To A Stranger by Walt Whitman

Love poems have the power to inspire us and to warm our hearts. We should take a few minutes each day to recall an inspirational line or stanza.


To A Stranger

Passing stranger! you do not know
How longingly I look upon you,
You must be he I was seeking,
Or she I was seeking
(It comes to me as a dream)

I have somewhere surely
Lived a life of joy with you,
All is recall'd as we flit by each other,
Fluid, affectionate, chaste, matured,

You grew up with me,
Were a boy with me or a girl with me,
I ate with you and slept with you, your body has become
not yours only nor left my body mine only,

You give me the pleasure of your eyes,
face, flesh as we pass,
You take of my beard, breast, hands,
in return,

I am not to speak to you, I am to think of you
when I sit alone or wake at night, alone
I am to wait, I do not doubt I am to meet you again
I am to see to it that I do not lose you.


The writings and poems of Walt Whitman show that he probably knew more than a few strangers in his life and that he seemed to feel comfortable getting to know them.

Perhaps destiny has brought this stranger into my life and they will be that special someone.

Read interesting notes about the backstory of To A Stranger.

6) Love Song: That's Amore
by Dean Martin

I can't watch or even think about "Moonstruck" without thinking about "That's Amore."

I can always hear Dean Martin's happy voice, "When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie. That's amore."


That's Amore

(In Napoli where love is King)
(When boy meets girl)
(Here's what they say)

When the moon hits your eye
Like a big-a pizza pie
That's amore
When the world seems to shine
Like you've had too much wine
That's amore

Bells'll ring
Ting-a-ling-a-ling
Ting-a-ling-a-ling
And you'll sing "Vita bella"
Hearts'll play
Tippi-tippi-tay
Tippi-tippi-tay
Like a gay tarantella

When the stars make you drool
Joost-a like pasta fazool
That's amore
When you dance down the street
With a cloud at your feet, you're in love
When you walk in a dream
But you know you're not dreamin', signore
'Scusami, but you see
Back in old Napoli, that's amore

(When the moon hits your eye)
(Like a big-a pizza pie, that's amore)

That's amore

(When the world seems to shine
(Like you've had too much wine, that's amore)

That's amore

(Bells will ring)
(Ting-a-ling-a-ling)
(ting-a-ling-a-ling)
(And you'll sing "Vita bella")
(Vita bell-vita bella)
(Hearts will play)
(Tippi-tippi-tay, tippi-tippi-tay)
(Like a gay tarantella)

Lucky fella

When the stars make you drool just like pasta fazool
That's amore (that's amore) When you dance down the street
With a cloud at your feet, you're in love
When you walk in a dream
But you know you're not dreaming, signore
'Scusami, but you see
Back in old Napoli, that's amore

That's all for now.

Make it a great week.

Mark

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