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The Dating Advisor, Issue #11 -- Hope Springs Eternal
April 07, 2005
Helping you to enjoy Online Dating.

Welcome to all!

"Hope springs eternal in the human breast." According to Alexander Pope in 1733.

Now that the days are longer and warmer, it is time to think about Spring, love, and a warm, special relationship.

Be sure to check out the reviews below of a couple of the best dating services on the internet, Lavalife.com and Tickle.com. Internet dating is one of the best ways for busy singles to safely meet and to get to know each other.

Enjoy the following features of The Dating Advisor and keep your spirits high!

In This Issue

1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews
2) Romantic Movie--When Harry Met Sally
3) Find a Unique Gift at Dan's Chocolates
4) Article--The Art of Flirting
5) Love Poem--First Love by John Clare
6) Love Song--L-O-V-E by Nat King Cole


1) Favorite Dating Service Reviews

Lavalife.com
Lavalife is "where singles click." When you click on lavalife you’ll find 10,000 or more singles on the site almost any time of the day. Lavalife currently has over 8 million online members. Lavalife is a supersized dating service with a great looking website and an outstanding assortment of features. It is quick and easy to get started with lavalife, and in no time you will be searching among their enormous membership for that special someone who really catches your attention. There are many success stories here and you just may be their next one.

At Lavalife you can create three different profiles because they offer three distinct communities of members. There is a Dating category for friendship and fun encounters, a Relationship category for finding someone who is open for serious possibilities, and there is an Intimate Encounters category where you might be able to start something wild.

Review continues Click Here.

Tickle.com
Tickle.com is an amazingly huge social and matchmaking network with over 18 million members in total networks and over one million members in the matchmaking network. As you can tell by the numbers, their resources are deep and their popularity is widespread. Tickle specializes in two areas and is a wonderful site to visit for both. Their large Social Network allows you to find friends for conversation, for idea exchange, and for hanging out with on the internet. Tickle has produced hundreds of Fun Tests and Premium Tests and adds 6 to 8 more each month. Fun Tests are like, “What’s Your Cat’s Type?” or “Is Your Pad Rad or Bad?”

The Matchmaking Network is also large and includes a number of tests. The Personality Profile is quite detailed and fun to take. The results give a good scientific snapshot of you and of your potential match. One of Tickle’s mottoes is “Find Romance With Scientific Matching.” You will be able to use the Personality Profile to produce a compatibility score, which will help you to match up with other fun, interesting, and attractive singles. It works well, as you will find. In the words of one Tickle member, “I never imagined I could meet someone I'd connect with on so many levels. We felt like we've known each other all of our lives."

Review continues Click Here.

2) When Harry Met Sally Movie Review

"When Harry Met Sally is a special comedy that can be appreciated by both men and women.

The humor used by both characters, though often unintentional, is a good example of how humor can build irresistable attraction.

This is the movie with that outrageous scene where Meg Ryan fakes an orgasm in the restaurant. The customer replies, "I'll have what she's having."

This is an excellent date movie.

Here's a review by Amazon.com editor, Tom Keogh.

"Nora Ephron wrote the brisk screenplay for this 1989 romantic comedy, director Rob Reiner made a nicely glossy New York story (very much in a Woody Allen vein) out of it, and Billy Crystal's unstoppable charm made it something really special. Crystal and Meg Ryan play longtime platonic friends who keep dancing around their deeper feelings for one another, and Bruno Kirby and Carrie Fisher are their respective pals who fall in love and get married. Ryan doesn't get a lot of funny material, but her performance is typically alive and intuitive, and she more than holds her own with Crystal's comic motor mouth and sweet sentimentality. Reiner is on comfortable ground, liberated from the burden of making serious statements in the lead-footed manner of subsequent features."

3) Find a unique, fun gift at Dan's Chocolates

What more romantic gifts can you give than chocolates and flowers? And dan's offers both! Their chocolates are true gourmet quality, equal to any brand you can name. You can shop for chocolates and flowers by occasion because dan's offers about 200 different gift boxes. You've got to see them. Be careful because the website will make your mouth water!
Click here.

4) The Art Of Flirting by Joe Vetromile

"Flirting is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the opposite sex is interested in them. Following is a quick outline on how you should go about the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes not so fun, task of flirting. It all begins with your approach.

The Approach

One person approaches the other. They move into closer physical proximity. This much is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility of initiating contact. You must approach!

Example: A woman sits down next to a man in a coffee shop, or a man stands near a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you approach, you begin looking for the signs.

The Signs

The person who has been approached will always signal the other’s presence in some way…a sign. This signal is not like a train whistle, however, more a subtle body language which you can learn to recognize. For example, he or she simply may look up, move over to make room, nod slightly, or signal with a glancing eye contact.

A display of total obliviousness to the one who is approaching generally indicates lack of interest altogether. Don’t be discouraged. But if the one you approached shows absolutely no interest, then it’s time to re-group and try again. But let’s say the approach works. You have your positive acknowledgement, now what? Time to talk."


Article continues Click Here.

5) First Love by John Clare

Love poems have the power to inspire us and to warm our hearts. We should take a few minutes each day to recall an inspirational line or stanza.


First Love

I ne'er was struck before that hour
With love so sudden and so sweet.
Her face it bloomed like a sweet flower
And stole my heart away complete.

My face turned pale, a deadly pale.
My legs refused to walk away,
And when she looked what could I ail
My life and all seemed turned to clay.

And then my blood rushed to my face
And took my eyesight quite away.
The trees and bushes round the place
Seemed midnight at noonday.

I could not see a single thing,
Words from my eyes did start.
They spoke as chords do from the string,
And blood burnt round my heart.

Are flowers the winter's choice
Is love's bed always snow
She seemed to hear my silent voice
Not love appeals to know.

I never saw so sweet a face
As that I stood before.
My heart has left its dwelling place
And can return no more.


Did you know that John Clare was living in a mental asylum when he wrote this poem? At times he imagined himself to be Lord Byron and at other times, Shakespeare.

Clare wrote this poem to his first love, Mary Joyce.

Read interesting notes about the backstory of First Love.

6) Love Song: L-O-V-E
by Nat King Cole

Nat King Cole's soothing voice in this song is special. And what other song better spells out what love is all about than this one?


L-O-V-E

L is for the way you look at me,
O is for the only one I see.
V is very, very extra-ordinary,
E is even more than anyone that you adore can...

Love is all that I can give to you,
Love is more than just a game for two.
Two in love can make it,
Take my heart and please don't break it,
Love was made for me and you.

~Interlude~

L is for the way you look at me,
O is for the only one I see.
V is very, very extra-ordinary,
E is even more than anyone that you adore can...

And love is all that I can give to you,
Love is more than just a game for two.
Two in love can make it,
Take my heart and please don't break it,

Love was made for me and you...
Love was made for me and you...
Love was made for me and you!

That's all for now.

Make it a great week.

Mark

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